Andrew,
Or, of course, we can do what certain other parties with previous renaming problems did. We can be The Database Formerly Known as Postgres. Then when someone complains about confusion with thePostQUEL-using version of the code, we can just become The Database. That oughta clear up any confusion, eh?
Further, it would lead to the acronym "TDFKAP". Which would clear up our pronunciation problems right there. ;-)
--Josh